Few realise that great service they are doing for mankind when they love and invest in each other . we need to understand that a stron relationship will give birth to a strong society , nation , it is therefore important to build an intimate relationship by finding out what is important and doing them.
Leaning to compliment often boost self esteem .
Developing listening skills , dont interrupt or dominate discussions .
Know how to satisfy in any way.
Decide to be approachable , be dependable .
Developing non verbal communication makes it closer .
Deciding to be loyal and trustworthy .
Apologise when wrong , it goes a long way.
Deciding to be open and truthful , let's know what's in your mind.
Addressing one issue per time .
During disagreement and misunderstanding learn to forgive.
Talk gently when upset , loudness will scare .
Sharing your thoughts, feelings and concerns , will run with the vision.
Investing in an intimate relationship is investing in the future of generations and a great nation .
Remember a wounded , unhappy relationship will nurture a wounded nation and the hand that rocks the cradle rules the world . There is no sacrifice too much to give for such a worthy cause.
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Tuesday, August 5, 2008
DATING
A special frienship between two members of the opposite sex , which may lead to love , courtship and marriage.
Dating should be approached from a questioning perspective , a need to know .
Information is a weapon and knowledge is power . Questions are interrogated expressions used to test knowledge , intellectual intelligence , metal ability and comprehension of each other.
The first person that need to be questioned is self .
-Check motive for starting a relationship .
-Try to understand yourself , who you are , what you have to offer your partner and who you can live with that may be spiritually , socially , intellectually , and mentally comatible with you .
-Find out whom you are dating is and if you will be compatible with , write out basic needs you cannot do without in dating the person and findout as early as possible in your relationship, if your intended spouse can satisfy these needs.
-Find out , as the relationship progress , at least the basic needs your intended spouse cannot do without and see if you can fill those needs..
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Dating should be approached from a questioning perspective , a need to know .
Information is a weapon and knowledge is power . Questions are interrogated expressions used to test knowledge , intellectual intelligence , metal ability and comprehension of each other.
The first person that need to be questioned is self .
-Check motive for starting a relationship .
-Try to understand yourself , who you are , what you have to offer your partner and who you can live with that may be spiritually , socially , intellectually , and mentally comatible with you .
-Find out whom you are dating is and if you will be compatible with , write out basic needs you cannot do without in dating the person and findout as early as possible in your relationship, if your intended spouse can satisfy these needs.
-Find out , as the relationship progress , at least the basic needs your intended spouse cannot do without and see if you can fill those needs..
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HOW TO REMAIN A CLOSE KNIT RELATIONSHIP.
Encourage independence.
Teach responsibility.
Appreciate individuality.
Accept relationship style .
Learn to manage conflict , settle it amicably.
Create relationsip celebrations.
Fill relationship with love !.
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Teach responsibility.
Appreciate individuality.
Accept relationship style .
Learn to manage conflict , settle it amicably.
Create relationsip celebrations.
Fill relationship with love !.
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QUALITIES OF A GOOD PERSON
As an Individual Personality , a very good one ! must be committed to doing things right, therefore must be submissive and obedient to God and humanity.
A good person will focus on changing first before others.
As a good person must live by example , being a role model and must be willing to do first , what is expected from others.
A Visionary , sets effective goals and constantly achieved them.
Builds , nurtures and positively affects the lives of people around .
Humility as watchword but firmly sets standards and ensure they are upheld.
confidence , secure and does not feel threatened by other people's potential s but instead nurtures and builds them.
Tolerance and peace loving and creates an atmosphere of peace knowing that meaningful development cannot occur in a hostile environment .
Motivational and gets people to give their best.
Trusts and involves others in plans for the future.
Relates well with people around him and has good interpersonal relationship.
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A good person will focus on changing first before others.
As a good person must live by example , being a role model and must be willing to do first , what is expected from others.
A Visionary , sets effective goals and constantly achieved them.
Builds , nurtures and positively affects the lives of people around .
Humility as watchword but firmly sets standards and ensure they are upheld.
confidence , secure and does not feel threatened by other people's potential s but instead nurtures and builds them.
Tolerance and peace loving and creates an atmosphere of peace knowing that meaningful development cannot occur in a hostile environment .
Motivational and gets people to give their best.
Trusts and involves others in plans for the future.
Relates well with people around him and has good interpersonal relationship.
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PREVAILING QUALITIES .
These are qualities that allow leaders to prevail. These then include :
-FAITH
-PERSPECTIVE
-ADAPTIVE CAPACITY : The knack to understand context and adjust one's course.
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-FAITH
-PERSPECTIVE
-ADAPTIVE CAPACITY : The knack to understand context and adjust one's course.
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Friday, August 1, 2008
ATTITUDE ! DEVELOP THE RIGHT ONE .
This is one of the things used in identifying fulfilment and value . Attitude , however is important . Attitude the way to altitude . The way of doing things , but there is a right way of doing things ! and this has got to do with doing things with the right attitude in a better way .
Here response is very important , it's deendent on how you hear not only what you hear . you are the only one responsible for your attitude , dont try to blame another person for the attitude that you already cultivated .
Attitude defines fulfilment and personality , when progress is made find out the attitude culivated . H ave the right attitude , when the wrong attitude shows up nil it ! It matters what you stand out for in life , Are you know for right or wrong attitude . The right attitude toward s the things that comes your way in life brings promotion in life to you in due time .
Be careful not to live a life of competition , so that great things of life will not elude you . Let the right attitude become your lifestyle and let it have dominion in you . Always let the king shows up in you , dont talk vulgar because you are a king ! Give up everything such that somethings in life does not really matter to you any longer . You can be the meekest word in life if you choose to , be polite and learn to use polite and kind words . words that build not words that kill / destroy . use words of praise and admiration , always be thankful for whatever happens and appreciate good things so that good things can come to you.
Copy the attitude of those commended for well behaviour , dont struggle for greatness , find out from others who are high marked for excellent performance in their way of dealing wit people in life and know the how to develop the one that has been deposited in you that you just dicovered.
Be fulfilled with the right attitude !
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Here response is very important , it's deendent on how you hear not only what you hear . you are the only one responsible for your attitude , dont try to blame another person for the attitude that you already cultivated .
Attitude defines fulfilment and personality , when progress is made find out the attitude culivated . H ave the right attitude , when the wrong attitude shows up nil it ! It matters what you stand out for in life , Are you know for right or wrong attitude . The right attitude toward s the things that comes your way in life brings promotion in life to you in due time .
Be careful not to live a life of competition , so that great things of life will not elude you . Let the right attitude become your lifestyle and let it have dominion in you . Always let the king shows up in you , dont talk vulgar because you are a king ! Give up everything such that somethings in life does not really matter to you any longer . You can be the meekest word in life if you choose to , be polite and learn to use polite and kind words . words that build not words that kill / destroy . use words of praise and admiration , always be thankful for whatever happens and appreciate good things so that good things can come to you.
Copy the attitude of those commended for well behaviour , dont struggle for greatness , find out from others who are high marked for excellent performance in their way of dealing wit people in life and know the how to develop the one that has been deposited in you that you just dicovered.
Be fulfilled with the right attitude !
your's in the school of right information http://www.placeofgold/
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