There is a popular saying that you dressed the way you want to be addressed. Another says that appearance shows the manner .This then means that you must always dress well ,this is the only truth that you have develop a good dress sense.
however ,occasions determine the kind of outfit to put on.dresses come in different styles made with different materials by different designer,And this is why at times a some say you cut your clothes according to your materials and size, such that the style you want to you want to bring out depends on the material used and the designer that made it.
questions as to What is dress sense ? Why do i have to develop a good dress sense? are the very sincere questions that required correct answers.
Dress sense simply put means dress well. The reasons for developing a good dress sense is because much could be said about you as soon as people see the way you dresses ,you have already created a first impression which speaks a lot about you and in return people relate to you based on your appearance. In actual fact , your dressing could draw people's attention towards you .
moreover, it is very important that there is a best way to dress and this is refer to as MODESTY :The action of dressing in a way that you do not expose your body, quality of being reasonable and not being extreme in your dressing including acessories in your wardrobe that will make your dressing complete such as makeups, jwellries ,shoes , bags ,wrist watches ,etc.
oncemore, the way you dressed to the office, at home, and when atttending social functions should be quite different, outfit such as casuals at home , suits for official outings and natives for informal occasions.
Above all, there is a craze for fashion but there is no gain saying that you should be well dressed, and that we still have majority that have developed a good dress sense ,only few that were out of their senses , dressed without sense.
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Thursday, May 22, 2008
Tuesday, May 20, 2008
GRAFTING A PERSONAL CODE OF CONDUCT.
This is an important step towards becoming the best with integrity ,it will serve a central guide and reference for you as you make your daily decisions.The followings are examples of personal code of conduct . you can as well create apersonal code of conduct by identifying and listing the principles you value most. principles that can be guides to your conduct. you can select from the following principles.
-COURTESY: Polite behaviour that shows respect for other people.
-FAIRNESS: The quality of treating people in a way that is reasonable.
-GRATITUDE: The feeling of being grateful and wanting to express your thanks.
-OBEDIENCE: Complete or unquestioning character.
-GENEROSITY: The fact of being giving or willing to give freely.
-INTEGRITY: The quality of beig honest and having strong moral principles.
-ACCOUNTABILITY: being responsile for you decision or actions.
-RESPECT: A feeling of admiration.
-JUSTICE : The fair treatment of people.
-SINCERITY : Showing what you really feel or think.
-TRUSTWORTHINESS:Being rely n to be good.
-PATIENCE: The ability to stay calm and accept a delay /annoyance without complaining.
-The quality of being honest.
-TRUTHFULNESS:Saying only what is true.
-TRANSPARENCY:The quality of sombody that allows to see the truth.
-COMPASSION: A strong feeling or sympathy for people who are suffering and a desire to help.
-PUNCTUALITY: Being at a place at the arranged or correct time.
-LOYALITY : The quality of being faithful in your support.
-HONOUR : Great respect and admiration for somebody.
Finally , crafting your very own personal code of conduct is also a very , very vital decision that should be made by everyone who desires to be a leader with a difference, this im 100% sure.
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-COURTESY: Polite behaviour that shows respect for other people.
-FAIRNESS: The quality of treating people in a way that is reasonable.
-GRATITUDE: The feeling of being grateful and wanting to express your thanks.
-OBEDIENCE: Complete or unquestioning character.
-GENEROSITY: The fact of being giving or willing to give freely.
-INTEGRITY: The quality of beig honest and having strong moral principles.
-ACCOUNTABILITY: being responsile for you decision or actions.
-RESPECT: A feeling of admiration.
-JUSTICE : The fair treatment of people.
-SINCERITY : Showing what you really feel or think.
-TRUSTWORTHINESS:Being rely n to be good.
-PATIENCE: The ability to stay calm and accept a delay /annoyance without complaining.
-The quality of being honest.
-TRUTHFULNESS:Saying only what is true.
-TRANSPARENCY:The quality of sombody that allows to see the truth.
-COMPASSION: A strong feeling or sympathy for people who are suffering and a desire to help.
-PUNCTUALITY: Being at a place at the arranged or correct time.
-LOYALITY : The quality of being faithful in your support.
-HONOUR : Great respect and admiration for somebody.
Finally , crafting your very own personal code of conduct is also a very , very vital decision that should be made by everyone who desires to be a leader with a difference, this im 100% sure.
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Wednesday, May 14, 2008
WHAT WINNERS DO.
I as a person ,already im a winner and always in the winning team .As a matter of fact , i notbeing selfish or selfcentered want to let you know what winners do.
-They use time wisely.
-They try harder.
-They help others.
-They give compliments.
-They focus on the positive.
- They believe the best of others.
-They admit mistakes .
- They prove they are dependable.
-They show appreciation.
-They put forth the best effort.
-They succeed.
Note that for you to a winner you have to do what winners do.The next thing is that your name is in the winners list and you begin to feel among.
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-They use time wisely.
-They try harder.
-They help others.
-They give compliments.
-They focus on the positive.
- They believe the best of others.
-They admit mistakes .
- They prove they are dependable.
-They show appreciation.
-They put forth the best effort.
-They succeed.
Note that for you to a winner you have to do what winners do.The next thing is that your name is in the winners list and you begin to feel among.
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BEING RESPONSIBLE .
Having job / duty of doing something or taking care of somebody that you can verge for ,that you can be trusted and rely on .It also could be referred to as the followings:
-Always doing your best.
-Doing what you say you will do
-taking care of things.
-Being carefull when using other people's things.
-doing your part when working with others.
-Accepting the consequence of your action.
- being in control of your behaviour.
moreover, you can have a sense of responsibility on the higher level which is always refer to as high sense of responsibility. which i think is the best level that needs to be attained especially for promotions and position of authority.Again i say toyou be responsible!
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-Always doing your best.
-Doing what you say you will do
-taking care of things.
-Being carefull when using other people's things.
-doing your part when working with others.
-Accepting the consequence of your action.
- being in control of your behaviour.
moreover, you can have a sense of responsibility on the higher level which is always refer to as high sense of responsibility. which i think is the best level that needs to be attained especially for promotions and position of authority.Again i say toyou be responsible!
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GIVE A COMPLIMENT!
Compliment is a remark that expresses praise or admiration of sombody, you can aswell pay sombody a compliment for something done.it could be greetings, especially when used to express praise and admiration.
However ,you use one of the following phrases to put a smile on someones face everyday.
-You did a great job!
-You look nice!
-You are the best!
-I like your smile!
-You do nice work!
-you are so cool!
-I know u can do it!
-keep up the good work!
-I like how you did that!
-You are awesome!
-You made my day!
-You are so smart!
-Fantastic job!
Hope you will make use of these compliments from time to time and you see yourself appreciating people for who they are ,so that they can start appreciating as well. celebrate good thing, love good thing so that good thing can come to you.
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However ,you use one of the following phrases to put a smile on someones face everyday.
-You did a great job!
-You look nice!
-You are the best!
-I like your smile!
-You do nice work!
-you are so cool!
-I know u can do it!
-keep up the good work!
-I like how you did that!
-You are awesome!
-You made my day!
-You are so smart!
-Fantastic job!
Hope you will make use of these compliments from time to time and you see yourself appreciating people for who they are ,so that they can start appreciating as well. celebrate good thing, love good thing so that good thing can come to you.
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Thursday, May 8, 2008
BOOSTING YOUR SELF ESTEEM.
Having low self esteem takes an enormous toll on the quality of your life .you take fewer risks ,which limits opportunities ,both personally and professionally. you are reluctant to voice or acknowledge your needs , you are probably also haunted by past mistakes and making future ones .
- Stop comparing yourself to other people : self comparism will likely end up yourself negative light. Being yourself is the best model of good self esteem. Be who you want to be and do what you want to do always have it in mind you are the best.
- Stop putting yourself down : constantly repeat negative comments about your skill and ability denies you from developing a high self esteem . Do not beef your up over mistakes that you have made . Learn how to correct them so that they work for you .Focus on successful achievements and move on.
-Use affirmations to raise yourself esteem: get into the habit of continually thinking and saying positive statement about yourself and experience the positive feelings about your statements.Also use inspirational quotes to boost yourself esteem.
-Accept compliments graciously : Do not dismiss compliment , if you do send a message to yourself , that you do not deserve it or you are worthy of praise .this reflect a low selfesteem.
-Take advantage of life coaching programmes: Attend trainning workshops and read books on how to raise yourself esteem. This helps to develop in you more positive attitude. good materials that youlay your hands on , act on what you have learnt which means that it will plant itself in your mind and dominate your behavior. nourish your mind on positive thoughts.
-Mix with positive and supportive people : you associate with influences your thoughts, actions and behavior. when you are surrounded by supportive people you feel better and comfortable about yourself.
- Acknowledge your positive attributes: learn how to trully value your many excellent qualities.
- Do not suppress your feelings : not voicing or acknwledging your need means that you are probably tolerating more than you should. Find out what you are putting up with and lower your tolerance ,by doing so , you are giving yourself the message that you are worth it.
- Involve yourself in work and activity that you love : so many people stop doing those activities that they most enjoy . Even if you are not in a position to make immediate changes in your career , you can still devote some of your leisure time to enjoyable hobbiesand activities.
- Start taking action ! The universe rewards action . Avoiding challenges means that your self esteem muscles become weak and flabby .When you start taking action regardless of your action you will begin to feel better about yourself ,develop your self confidence and raise your selfesteem.
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- Stop comparing yourself to other people : self comparism will likely end up yourself negative light. Being yourself is the best model of good self esteem. Be who you want to be and do what you want to do always have it in mind you are the best.
- Stop putting yourself down : constantly repeat negative comments about your skill and ability denies you from developing a high self esteem . Do not beef your up over mistakes that you have made . Learn how to correct them so that they work for you .Focus on successful achievements and move on.
-Use affirmations to raise yourself esteem: get into the habit of continually thinking and saying positive statement about yourself and experience the positive feelings about your statements.Also use inspirational quotes to boost yourself esteem.
-Accept compliments graciously : Do not dismiss compliment , if you do send a message to yourself , that you do not deserve it or you are worthy of praise .this reflect a low selfesteem.
-Take advantage of life coaching programmes: Attend trainning workshops and read books on how to raise yourself esteem. This helps to develop in you more positive attitude. good materials that youlay your hands on , act on what you have learnt which means that it will plant itself in your mind and dominate your behavior. nourish your mind on positive thoughts.
-Mix with positive and supportive people : you associate with influences your thoughts, actions and behavior. when you are surrounded by supportive people you feel better and comfortable about yourself.
- Acknowledge your positive attributes: learn how to trully value your many excellent qualities.
- Do not suppress your feelings : not voicing or acknwledging your need means that you are probably tolerating more than you should. Find out what you are putting up with and lower your tolerance ,by doing so , you are giving yourself the message that you are worth it.
- Involve yourself in work and activity that you love : so many people stop doing those activities that they most enjoy . Even if you are not in a position to make immediate changes in your career , you can still devote some of your leisure time to enjoyable hobbiesand activities.
- Start taking action ! The universe rewards action . Avoiding challenges means that your self esteem muscles become weak and flabby .When you start taking action regardless of your action you will begin to feel better about yourself ,develop your self confidence and raise your selfesteem.
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TIME MANAGEMENT
Time is something that everybody has an equal amount of . It's 24 hrs a day to all .The difference is the way it's managed or plan . how well time is used differentiate between successes and failures. one cannot use the time of another without permission .Time requires planning and adhering strictly to it .Discipline is the watchword.
However ,manager starts early ,uses a diary ,or note book, curtail visitors , response as brief as possible to personal phone calls and visits , set goals , put made plans on papers , lists assignments in order of importance , empowered ,avoid the i can do it myself , or no one can do it better , dont equate delegation with abdication of responsibilty . Be focused and result oriented , follow your plans as listed or written , dont rush words , listen properly , repeat words , consider the consequence of loosing job , consider the consequence of loosing job , and consider the importance of the duties render to the growth.
Moreover, the first best use of time is to find out what to do with time .Time is vengeful and vindicative if not use well. time will use you. Use your time .
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However ,manager starts early ,uses a diary ,or note book, curtail visitors , response as brief as possible to personal phone calls and visits , set goals , put made plans on papers , lists assignments in order of importance , empowered ,avoid the i can do it myself , or no one can do it better , dont equate delegation with abdication of responsibilty . Be focused and result oriented , follow your plans as listed or written , dont rush words , listen properly , repeat words , consider the consequence of loosing job , consider the consequence of loosing job , and consider the importance of the duties render to the growth.
Moreover, the first best use of time is to find out what to do with time .Time is vengeful and vindicative if not use well. time will use you. Use your time .
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Monday, May 5, 2008
BETTER LIFE.
Better life requires a time out for oneself which has a rejuvinating effects .This might appear selfish but it re-energises . It could mean reading a book , taking a walk , exercising , or spending time with friends / relatives or simply being with thoughts might not be realised but pondering unlocks potential to think creatively.
cultivate relationships with people : relationships ,personal and professional are very important because these will ultimately predict how far you could go in life. A person who makes out time for others and is free giving never has to worry about opportunities you get in the measure you give . be a person of your word. Integrity goes a long way towards building a relationship . people always remember you not by what you say but by what you do. show genuine concerned aout people's welfare not just the monetary gains from a relationship .
Create goals and take actions : having goals is great but once you figure out what they are ,write an action plan to get yourself there . if its business for example , it will mean writing a business plan and then start to sustain it . dont get discouraged if plans doesnt go exactly as planned. simply refine it and take action .goals could be several but should be priortised in order to be focused.
Be excellent at all times : excellence means to stand out , go beyond the ordinary, beat imaginations . is about daring oneself to be great and doing everything to get there . it could as well be achieved by showing up on time , being committed and ability to execute. this is the way to get what needs to be gotten out of life. it takes desire, stamina and determination. this is an attribute of every successful person not as means to an end but as a way of life.
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cultivate relationships with people : relationships ,personal and professional are very important because these will ultimately predict how far you could go in life. A person who makes out time for others and is free giving never has to worry about opportunities you get in the measure you give . be a person of your word. Integrity goes a long way towards building a relationship . people always remember you not by what you say but by what you do. show genuine concerned aout people's welfare not just the monetary gains from a relationship .
Create goals and take actions : having goals is great but once you figure out what they are ,write an action plan to get yourself there . if its business for example , it will mean writing a business plan and then start to sustain it . dont get discouraged if plans doesnt go exactly as planned. simply refine it and take action .goals could be several but should be priortised in order to be focused.
Be excellent at all times : excellence means to stand out , go beyond the ordinary, beat imaginations . is about daring oneself to be great and doing everything to get there . it could as well be achieved by showing up on time , being committed and ability to execute. this is the way to get what needs to be gotten out of life. it takes desire, stamina and determination. this is an attribute of every successful person not as means to an end but as a way of life.
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MANAGING YOURSELF
Now most of us , even those of us with modest endowment , will have to learn to manage ourselves . We will have to learn to manage ourselves . we will learn to develop ourselves where we can make the greatest contribution. Question as to ;
what are my strenght where one belongs can transform an ordinary person , hardworking and competent but otherwise second - rate - into an outstanding performer .
How do i perform ? Amazingly only few people know how to get things done . most do not even know that different people work and perform differently . many people work in ways which lead to poor performance because they are not the right ways . just as people achieve results by doing what they are good at , they also achieve results by working in ways that they best perform.
what are my values ? To be effective in life , a person's value must be compatible with what is being done . It does not have to be the same with what you do but must be close enough to co exist .
What contribution should i make ? how can i make contributions to what should be done .
finally, what results have to be achieved to make a difference ? responsibility for relationships ; the first step is to accept the fact other people are as much individual as yourself.
what are my strenght where one belongs can transform an ordinary person , hardworking and competent but otherwise second - rate - into an outstanding performer .
How do i perform ? Amazingly only few people know how to get things done . most do not even know that different people work and perform differently . many people work in ways which lead to poor performance because they are not the right ways . just as people achieve results by doing what they are good at , they also achieve results by working in ways that they best perform.
what are my values ? To be effective in life , a person's value must be compatible with what is being done . It does not have to be the same with what you do but must be close enough to co exist .
What contribution should i make ? how can i make contributions to what should be done .
finally, what results have to be achieved to make a difference ? responsibility for relationships ; the first step is to accept the fact other people are as much individual as yourself.
Friday, May 2, 2008
MANAGING YOUR FINANCES .
Income management is a major problem not only peculiar to the young but also affecting the old.
Good income management helps you create monetary stability and sufficiency. However the following could help you manage your finance better.
- Establish a budget: A detailed budget that keeps track of all your income and expenses will help shed some light on your personal finances. Preparing a budget and sticking to it is an important part of meeting your financial goals. you need to know where your money goes each time. Align your values to meet your financial targets. Estimate your fixed , flexible and occasional expenses. Then compare your income to your expenses and make adjustment to achieve balanced budget. At the end , your total expenses should not exceed your total income or at best it should balance out . Here an understanding of savings and investment is required.
- Save : another way to keep your money is to build p your savings. small amount set aside , grow over time with substantial pay off. It takes a little discipline to save depending on your earnings , you may decide to set aside amount ranging from a thousand and above. create a precautionary fund .you are advice to plan for the unexpected for peace of mind . Generally a minimum worth of living expenses to cover unforseen circumstances .
- Plan : for major events and acquisitions requires good financial panning and savings strategies. Try to save towards school fees , car purchase , vacation ,house / office rent , landed property and others.
- Dont blow that bonus : when a windfall comes your way you should seize the opportunity to save. Bonuses should be planned towards savings , investment or reducing existing debt.
Finally , giving is the best way of managing your finance because givers never lack.
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Good income management helps you create monetary stability and sufficiency. However the following could help you manage your finance better.
- Establish a budget: A detailed budget that keeps track of all your income and expenses will help shed some light on your personal finances. Preparing a budget and sticking to it is an important part of meeting your financial goals. you need to know where your money goes each time. Align your values to meet your financial targets. Estimate your fixed , flexible and occasional expenses. Then compare your income to your expenses and make adjustment to achieve balanced budget. At the end , your total expenses should not exceed your total income or at best it should balance out . Here an understanding of savings and investment is required.
- Save : another way to keep your money is to build p your savings. small amount set aside , grow over time with substantial pay off. It takes a little discipline to save depending on your earnings , you may decide to set aside amount ranging from a thousand and above. create a precautionary fund .you are advice to plan for the unexpected for peace of mind . Generally a minimum worth of living expenses to cover unforseen circumstances .
- Plan : for major events and acquisitions requires good financial panning and savings strategies. Try to save towards school fees , car purchase , vacation ,house / office rent , landed property and others.
- Dont blow that bonus : when a windfall comes your way you should seize the opportunity to save. Bonuses should be planned towards savings , investment or reducing existing debt.
Finally , giving is the best way of managing your finance because givers never lack.
your's in the school of right information www.placeofgold.com.
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