Wednesday, July 2, 2008

A GOOD FIRST IMPRESSION

The following fundamentals help people avoid rubbing others on the wrong side.
-Radiate approachability.
-Show interest in others.
-Share little information on your self to form a bond.
-Know what topics to discuss during a first meeting.
-Feel positive about yourself , your life and the world you live .
People start making judgement from the first time they talk or see you .To increase your odds of making a good first impression , you can put the following to work.
-Make eye contact most of the time but please dont overdo it.
-Pay attention to your bodylanguage, lean towards others when they speak , Nod every now and then , Smile even when you are not in the mood, Just showing some teeth makes you and others feel better .
-Do not disclose too much personal information , keep conversation light and positive , spare them about your compliments of failures.
-Pay compliments:people warm up to sincere compliments ,They are also good icebreakers.
-Use personal name for people in your age bracket but please do not try it on people older than you .
-Be a skilled listener .The more you listen and connect ,The more likely it is that others will return that attention.
Making people feel special and putting them in a good mood will make you more socially desirable , we should try not to come accross shallowbring ,aggressive ,caculating or arrogrance.
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